Comments on: Revelations and Epiphanies – My Dad killed himself… http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/ Pull no punches and tell no lies... Tue, 04 Oct 2011 10:36:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Col http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/comment-page-1/#comment-12861 Col Thu, 24 Dec 2009 09:39:20 +0000 http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/#comment-12861 Hey Ross, Wow, right? It's such a shock when things like this happen. One of my best friends killed herself years ago and I wanted so badly to have all of these questions answered. That was the strongest feeling for me ... like the unanswered questions left some sort of a hole inside of me. I mean, of course you know some of it ... she had an illness too, like your stepdad ... but even so, you just want to talk to them and ask them things. And you know you never will be able to do that ... at least not in the near future ;) I'm guessing even if we could have our questions answered, the hole would still be there. Thinking warm thoughts of you and your family. Hey Ross,

Wow, right? It’s such a shock when things like this happen. One of my best friends killed herself years ago and I wanted so badly to have all of these questions answered. That was the strongest feeling for me … like the unanswered questions left some sort of a hole inside of me.

I mean, of course you know some of it … she had an illness too, like your stepdad … but even so, you just want to talk to them and ask them things. And you know you never will be able to do that … at least not in the near future ;) I’m guessing even if we could have our questions answered, the hole would still be there.

Thinking warm thoughts of you and your family.

]]> By: Sandy White http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/comment-page-1/#comment-12434 Sandy White Tue, 01 Dec 2009 15:00:54 +0000 http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/#comment-12434 Dear Ross, we've only just learned about your sad loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I've lost both of my parents now, but not to suicide. That has to be very, very hard. Please know that we will earnestly pray that the Lord will comfort your heart and give you some of the answers you are seeking. I've known Him for a very long time and through the worst that life has tried to give me, He has been my strength and peace. I pray you will find that as well. Please know that we are available at any time if you need to talk with us. Lovingly, Sandy White Dear Ross, we’ve only just learned about your sad loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I’ve lost both of my parents now, but not to suicide. That has to be very, very hard.

Please know that we will earnestly pray that the Lord will comfort your heart and give you some of the answers you are seeking.

I’ve known Him for a very long time and through the worst that life has tried to give me, He has been my strength and peace. I pray you will find that as well.

Please know that we are available at any time if you need to talk with us.

Lovingly, Sandy White

]]> By: Greg http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/comment-page-1/#comment-12143 Greg Mon, 16 Nov 2009 21:47:00 +0000 http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/#comment-12143 Hi Ross, I just want to say sorry about your stepdad. I actually came onto this site from your youtube video about affiliate marketing for blogger. i then noticed something on your squidoo lense about you being disabled in iraq war. then i found this. well all i can say is that I pray God answers you and that you and your family will have a peaceful Christmas and you and your loved ones are blessed to have a strong family member - you. Please try to speak to God again.He does answer , it takes time. My brother has been diagnosed with mental illness and now he is getting his confidence back but ive been his carer since 01 and God is faithful. Have a peaceful christmas. And thanks for the how to affiliate link - going back to watch it now. God bless,Greg. Hi Ross,

I just want to say sorry about your stepdad. I actually came onto this site from your youtube video about affiliate marketing for blogger. i then noticed something on your squidoo lense about you being disabled in iraq war. then i found this. well all i can say is that I pray God answers you and that you and your family will have a peaceful Christmas and you and your loved ones are blessed to have a strong family member – you. Please try to speak to God again.He does answer , it takes time. My brother has been diagnosed with mental illness and now he is getting his confidence back but ive been his carer since 01 and God is faithful. Have a peaceful christmas. And thanks for the how to affiliate link – going back to watch it now. God bless,Greg.

]]> By: Vickie http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/comment-page-1/#comment-12043 Vickie Tue, 10 Nov 2009 04:03:03 +0000 http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/#comment-12043 I stubbled upon this blog post as I was working. Thank you for being brave enough to share your pain, your wisdom and your drive. Your right quiters never win and winners never quit. God bless you and your father Vickie I stubbled upon this blog post as I was working. Thank you for being brave enough to share your pain, your wisdom and your drive. Your right quiters never win and winners never quit.

God bless you and your father

Vickie

]]> By: Kitsch http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/comment-page-1/#comment-11456 Kitsch Mon, 05 Oct 2009 17:34:14 +0000 http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/#comment-11456 Ross, I am sorry for your family's loss. In spite of this you still choose to share your strength... & that is immortal. Your perseverance and indomitable spirit are a testimony of your character. Regards, Kitsch Remsky Ross,
I am sorry for your family’s loss. In spite of this you still choose to share your strength… & that is immortal. Your perseverance and indomitable spirit are a testimony of your character.

Regards,
Kitsch Remsky

]]> By: Clay Franklin http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/comment-page-1/#comment-11435 Clay Franklin Sun, 04 Oct 2009 03:35:43 +0000 http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/#comment-11435 Ross very sorry that your family has to go through this. I left a nice long comment last week but the spam filter must not have liked it. My thoughts are with you. Ross very sorry that your family has to go through this. I left a nice long comment last week but the spam filter must not have liked it. My thoughts are with you.

]]> By: Said BARCHIL http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/comment-page-1/#comment-11379 Said BARCHIL Wed, 30 Sep 2009 08:54:29 +0000 http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/#comment-11379 Hey Bro, Sorry to hear about it. My condolences to you I understand your feeling about it . Because I have lose someone recently i just know you a month ago thought your seminars and articles and I'm fascinated about what I have learned from you and about your ideas and marketing knowledge but you know what i have learned in this post you just write is the best you can teach us about fighting for our life, family and ideas please excuse my bad English Hey Bro,

Sorry to hear about it. My condolences to you
I understand your feeling about it . Because I have lose someone recently
i just know you a month ago thought your seminars and articles and I’m fascinated about what I have learned from you and about your ideas and marketing knowledge but you know what i have learned in this post you just write is the best you can teach us about fighting for our life, family and ideas

please excuse my bad English

]]> By: Clay Franklin http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/comment-page-1/#comment-11378 Clay Franklin Wed, 30 Sep 2009 07:37:42 +0000 http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/#comment-11378 Sorry for your loss Ross. I lost my Dad when I was 6 to pneumonia, I was in alone visiting with him when he collapsed. Losing a family member is the worst thing. Harris has a point about depression. Really sorry you have to deal with this loss and the impact to your family. On a brighter note, congratulations on your new position as a Stompernet Guru. You will get to help a lot of people. Sorry for your loss Ross.
I lost my Dad when I was 6 to pneumonia, I was in alone visiting with him when he collapsed. Losing a family member is the worst thing.
Harris has a point about depression.
Really sorry you have to deal with this loss and the impact to your family.
On a brighter note, congratulations on your new position as a Stompernet Guru. You will get to help a lot of people.

]]> By: morten http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/comment-page-1/#comment-11226 morten Fri, 25 Sep 2009 10:34:38 +0000 http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/#comment-11226 I'm sorry for your loss. I have My step-father battled against leukemia for four years, and the doctors gave him small odds for surviving after the kemo was failing, and he started to loose hope. But then they found a match, a kind soul from England (we live in Norway), who gave his bone-marrow. This saved his life. We will never know who gave him the bone marrow (its annonymous), but you should never loose hope no matter what. I have met twelve year old girls who have later died from cancer, but they never lost hope - and they never gave up. I’m sorry for your loss. I have

My step-father battled against leukemia for four years, and the doctors gave him small odds for surviving after the kemo was failing, and he started to loose hope. But then they found a match, a kind soul from England (we live in Norway), who gave his bone-marrow.

This saved his life. We will never know who gave him the bone marrow (its annonymous), but you should never loose hope no matter what.

I have met twelve year old girls who have later died from cancer, but they never lost hope – and they never gave up.

]]> By: Scott Ames http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/comment-page-1/#comment-11172 Scott Ames Tue, 22 Sep 2009 18:59:58 +0000 http://www.ross-goldberg.com/revelations-and-epiphanies-my-dad-killed-himself/#comment-11172 Wow...that is a lot to deal with. His pain is gone, but the pain of those around him remains. I don't even know how I would deal with that. Everyone reacts differently to challenges. Some give up, some fight on. Some complain, some see the good in them. Life is just a series of problems or challenges to solve. We can let them get us down, but not for too long hopefully. I never understood giving up totally and permanently. You seem to be the strong one in your family and I'm sure you'll be leaned on by others that are not so strong. Hopefully you can comfort them. Wow…that is a lot to deal with. His pain is gone, but the pain of those around him remains.

I don’t even know how I would deal with that.

Everyone reacts differently to challenges. Some give up, some fight on. Some complain, some see the good in them.

Life is just a series of problems or challenges to solve. We can let them get us down, but not for too long hopefully. I never understood giving up totally and permanently.

You seem to be the strong one in your family and I’m sure you’ll be leaned on by others that are not so strong. Hopefully you can comfort them.

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